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Love compatibility
report for
Valerie Bertinelli and Eddie Vanhalen
This
report was written to
Valerie for her and Eddie.
In the major scheme of life, we all want to
know---ARE we compatible? Will it work, will it not. Am I making a
mistake and wasting my time or is this really a harmonious match.
Face it. What we're all seeking is that one special soul on earth
who will accept us as we are. One who loves our flaws as well as our
assets. One who doesn't make it their mission to try to "change" us
to make us how they think we should be.
Acceptance is the
operative word here. Understanding the underlying traits of the
person of interest will rather objectively point out their
tendencies. From that point, it becomes a conscious decision to
either accept or reject them.
Now there are some instances
where even trying to tolerate the differences would seem ludicrous
to most "sane" individuals. You all know of someone who you just
can't for the life of you figure out why these people are together,
let alone why they would ever choose to stay together. In these
cases there is usually some very strong chemistry that magnetically
hangs on to provide the stage for one or the other to resolve some
type of past life karma. Almost like a pre-destined agreement to
stay through the experiences to give one the opportunity to atone
for previous wrong-doing and learn from the other how to correct
their prior misuse of a particular energy.
But, for most of
us, it would be quite helpful to know what we're getting into before
making that final leap. Many other cultures practice this same
"test". The Indians are known for their "arranged marriages" where
the parents choose the mates for their children, using a form of
vedic astrology to determine their compatibility.
In this
country many churches who require pre-marital counseling, strive to
point out the differences and "issues" that could become troublesome
in an attempt to further define the essence or values of each
through some form of testing. The same holds true for many
employment opportunities.
We're looking for that optimal
condition that helps reduce the fear and enhance the probability of
a happy, successful relationship. In the following comparisons, look
for the positive traits that make you feel secure as well as those
you wish were different. It's the latter you must decide if you can
live with!
Now, let's examine each of the following planes
to see just how compatible you really are:
Your personalities
(How you act)
Your destinies (How you function day to
day)
Your emotional planes (How you feel about
relationships)
Your souls (What really makes you happy and
how you feel underneath)
Your lifepaths (What you came to
accomplish)
Your mental planes (How you
think)
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Valerie Bertinelli |
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Eddie Vanhalen |
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50/5 |
Outer
Personality |
62/8 |
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99/9 |
Destiny |
95/5 |
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5 |
Emotional Plane |
4 |
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49/4 |
Soul Urge |
33/6 |
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43/7 |
Life Path |
47/11 |
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2 |
Mental Plane |
5 |
Your personalities (How you
act)
Valerie 5 - Eddie 8 A dynamite duo in
the realm of successful accomplishment! Here you have the five, a
highly motivated communicator, with novel ideas and business savvy,
which is shared with the eight. In the worlds of production,
promotion and commerce, there would be no stopping this highly
charged energy.
The five will provide a sense of excitement
and adventure to the eight who has the strength to transform the
concepts of the five into reality.
The eight adds a sense of
prestige to the five, who must take care not to embarrass or incite
the eight. In most situations, the five is more interested in good
times and the eight in maintaining the power and authority----which
includes the money!
The combination of the two should reach
for the top and think big. The stimulation of city life is an
absolute must to your momentum. Both of you are highly sexual and
may share a tendency toward alcoholism.
The eight is a
builder and therefore, quite "fixed". This tendency might conflict
with the freedom necessary for the five to "breathe". The eight
likes to control and the five cannot be
restrained.
FINAL ANSWER:
Rock and
roll!!!
Your destinies (How you function day to
day)
Valerie 9 - Eddie 5 If the two of you
intend to travel a lot or involve yourselves in more of a bohemian
or unconventional lifestyle, there's a chance. You both will have
many interesting, sometimes highly unusual, talented friends. The
five has the ability and flexibility to promote the wisdom of the
nine, especially in areas of science and research.
Someone
(perhaps an outsider) needs to manage the money for this set of
energy! You both may be given to impulse and extremes and can have
the habit of responding to life in a dangerously spontaneous way.
Neither of you have much tolerance for limits and may not accept
them, nor inflict them on each other, resulting in a shortfall when
the bills come due.
Things could really turn south if there's
a tendency toward drinking too much or unrestrained sexual behavior.
When channeled in the right direction, though, there are no limits
on the good you can provide, especially with humanitarian or global
pursuits.
You each have an amazing amount of flair and style
and ability to relate to the public.
FINAL
ANSWER:
Could be too volatile without some other grounding
energy.
Your emotional planes (How you feel about
relationships)
Valerie 5 - Eddie 4 This
pair of opposites is possibly the rockiest of all for a
relationship. For starters, the four isn't happy without the control
and the five simply cannot tolerate restrictions. The four is
conservative. The five is a risk taker. The four is a homebody. The
five loves to travel. Are you getting my drift?
The four may
not approve of or be happy with the impulsiveness of the five. When
the five gets bored with the four the tendency to flirt at parties
or join too many outside activities can drive the four nuts!
If you find you're in love anyway, the five, being the more
flexible, will have to do all the adjusting. Sometimes the five will
seek out the steadfast security the four can offer, but long term
will have to find some outlet for excitement and
adventure.
FINAL ANSWER:
No way, Jose!
Your souls (What really makes you happy
and how you feel underneath)
Valerie 4 - Eddie
6 The lure of the traditional lifestyle and family life
may draw you two together from a security based standpoint. You can
create a wonderfully cozy nest and both actively partake in the
raising of your children. You are both quite responsible and
dependable, a mutual "must ".
The critical problem lies
within the love and affection department. The six loves beauty and
the four may not have that magnetic attraction. You may say beauty's
only skin deep, but it will always play to the heartstrings of the
six.
The six is the romantic and the four may feel somewhat
pressured by the six's never ending need for affection and
reassuring, intimate love. The four will have a great deal of
respect for the six, but feel like they have more than their share
of the work.
The six loves the arts, which may be a bit "out
of the box" for he four. Things could work great if the four sticks
to maintaining what the six creates.
FINAL
ANSWER:
Definitely a compatible option if you understand each
others needs
Your lifepaths (What you came to
accomplish)
Valerie 7 - Eddie 2 Pay
attention to the law of opposites. As a couple, this combination
would be rather strange. The seven is a loner, content to be
isolated and left to work on whatever projects preferred. The two is
a joiner and needs emotional sharing and a sense of belonging to be
happy.
What you do have in common is a growth potential in
spiritual or mystical studies. The seven will lead the two down the
right path and the two will usually be happy to be shown the way. In
this case, the two will grant the seven the periods of solitude to
think and perfect ideas that will eventually share a mutual benefit.
At other times, the seven may become annoyed with the two's
outburst of emotion. The two may take the seven's quite periods
personally and end up sulking, feeling it needs more attention. Both
will love a well ordered home, but if children are involved, the two
would most likely be the one to do all the parenting.
FINAL
ANSWER:
Stranger things have happened, but not many. The two
may suffer too much from a lack attention or
intimacy.
Your mental planes (How you
think)
Valerie 2 - Eddie 5 Could bring
trouble to paradise! The two and the five will make great friends
and could actually be better off having an affair than tying the
knot. The five needs and loves freedom and independence, which may
be difficult for the more dependent two to handle. The two can have
a somewhat stabilizing effect on the five as long as the two doesn't
become overly demanding, which will suffocate the five resulting in
intense restlessness.
Fives tend to enjoy more lively,
out-going forms of socializing, while the two prefers quite evenings
with old friends. The five loves new ideas and new things, which
could result in the two having to finish a lot of what the five
starts. On the other hand, the five will provide excitement and
stimulation for the two as long as someone's romantic illusions
aren't shattered along the way.
If the two can hold the
five's attention long enough, it may provide just the force to make
the five's ideas a reality.
FINAL ANSWER:
Must check
out other influences to confirm longevity possibilities. Otherwise,
this duo could be the next sitcom of "The Subdued and the Restless"!
Valerie's romance profile follows.
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Love and Romance
Profile
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Understand what influences the course
of romance in your life.
- Get what you want from your relationships.
- Be the happiest in these relationships.
- Recognize when he comes into your life.
- Avoid ill-advised combinations of aspects and
influences that could have been avoided.
Dear
Valerie,
This profile will show you how these
four aspects of numerology influence the course of
romance in your life.
- Your soul urge: What lies within your heart. It
describes what truly makes you happy in a
relationship.
- Your destiny: Make the most of the positive
numerological influences in your character, and
prevent any negative influences from interfering with
the achievement of your purpose, especially when it
comes to romantic relationships
- Your Emotional Plane: Know your feelings.
- Your day of birth: The person who you are
attracted to. The person who would be best for
you.
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VALERIE ANN
BERTINELLI |
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Born: April, 23
1960
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| Soul
Urge |
49/4 |
| Destiny |
99/9 |
| Emotional
Plane |
5 |
| Day of
Birth |
23 |
Soul Urge
...And be true to your Heart...
Because
the world is full of people who lack the wherewithal to
be themselves and who present an image to the outside
world that is totally different from what they really
feel inside. Well, Valerie, the numbers of your SOUL
URGE and outer personality explain why this is so. Your
SOUL URGE is the golden key to who you really are and to
what's really going on inside you. As its name suggests,
it's what motivates you, what drives you forward. It's
the "little engine that could" in you - your core, your
center, your wishes, desires and interests.
This
important numerological tool forms the basis of all your
beliefs, your instincts - the good, the bad and all the
ones in between - and that inner knowledge of the world
and life, all those things you can't articulate but that
you know are so. Most times you only become aware after
the fact of the impact your Soul Urge has had on
critical events in your life, those turning points that
you look back on, as we all do, wondering, "What if I'd
taken a job because the pay was better, instead of
taking one, as I did, because the atmosphere and working
conditions suited me?" Well, the answer is: Because your
Soul Urge pushed you one way and not the other: you made
a choice, yes, but your Soul Urge was exerting a
powerful influence on you that you were perhaps only
dimly aware of. Now you're going to begin learning how
to amplify and harness that awareness, how to put it to
work for your own good...and the good of
others.
The Soul Urge is also known as the
Heart's Desire because it describes what lies within
your heart - your attitudes, ambitions, goals and
desires. It describes what your true "heart's desire"
is-and what truly makes you happy!
Your Soul Urge
is calculated by adding the numbers that represent the
vowels in your name. The name "Jill Saint James," for
example, has a 7 Soul Urge (9 + 1 + 9 + 1 + 5 = 25 = 7).
My Soul Urge emphasizes spirituality, analysis, quiet
time and questioning!
Another very important
factor you'll want to bear in mind is the Soul Urge
Challenge. It represents obstacles that should be
overcome so that you can get the best and the most out
of your Soul Urge's direction. It is calculated by
subtracting the first and last vowels of your name. My
challenge is a 4 (9(I) - 5(E) = 4), which means that I
have to work hard at being organized, practical, patient
and methodical.
There's one more thing I'd like
to tell you, Valerie: remember that hiding your true
feelings usually stems from fear of rejection. Think of
how free and good you feel when you KNOW someone loves
you unconditionally and that it's OK - not just OK,
GREAT! - to be you. Well, you should NEVER deny your
Soul Urge, your true feelings. They're your greatest
gifts: they were given to you for a purpose. And in the
following pages we're going to read and think about what
that purpose truly is and what and who you're truly
happiest being, and then we're going to find ways to let
the more responsive and relaxed side of your nature
show, and enjoy the inner peace that comes your
way.
Your Soul Urge - 4
Professional, proud, persevering and patient
. . .
. . . these four "p" words describe you,
your inner desires and your outlook
perfectly!
Your down-to-earth attitude and inner
strength result from the influence of a 4 Soul Urge. Any
time a 4 crops up in conjunction with something as
important as a Soul Urge, I know that person's going to
be disciplined, loyal and honest - a woman whose
constant companions are integrity and faith.
Deep
down, where it counts, you're a firm believer in the
work ethic and in an "honest day's work for an honest
day's pay." You're not one to be caught complaining
about working overtime, because accomplishments in the
real world and the material gain that follows in their
wake mean a lot to you.
Your mature and rather
serious nature and your practical outlook on life make
you a trustworthy woman at work, in your home and in
your community. Many people see you as a pillar of
strength, as a woman who can be counted on when projects
need to be completed without argument or
complaint.
This doesn't mean that you don't react
when you see injustices being committed! You have a deep
respect for law and order and will fight for the
underdog if you feel that a wrong has been committed.
You're wonderful when it comes to defending your family,
friends and co-workers against anyone who attacks or
tries to harm them.
You're also a woman who lets
people know when you feel you're being taken for
granted. No, you don't need pats on the back or constant
admiration to keep yourself going. But by the same token
you don't believe in letting someone else take credit
for your accomplishments. The reverse is true, too - you
always give credit where credit is due.
You're
ambitious when it comes to material things. You're into
money because, first of all, you like watching the
figures in your bank account or mutual fund climb higher
and higher. But a more important reason is that you
believe in saving for a rainy day. You'll take your
earnings and invest them in areas that are tried and
true and that have a good track record. Risky or
speculative investments are not your cup of
tea.
You've probably mapped out your path to
success in writing, because you like things to be
organized and somewhat predictable. This plan for the
future, combined with your dedication to the work ethic,
will ensure that you'll never want for anything of a
material nature.
Your main concern is to be in
control at all times so as to protect yourself against
accidents or surprises. Change and innovation simply
aren't part of your life. You don't like it when people
drop by your home without calling first, nor do you care
for last-minute changes in vacation plans or sudden new
projects that pop up at work, taking precedence over
ones you've been working on for months.
While
adherence to schedules and plans constitutes one of your
charms, you should be careful not to overdo your passion
for perfection. If you consistently oppose any kind of
change and cling to old and outmoded methods rather than
adjusting to new ways of doing things, you could be
regarded as a difficult, stubborn and narrow-minded
woman - the original "fuddy-duddy."
So loosen up
a little and accept others as they are, and you'll save
yourself a lot of heartache and negative vibes from
others. Develop a more flexible nature, stick to your
structures, and take pleasure in being a dedicated and
decisive woman. Also, be aware that not everyone is
endowed with your wonderful penchant for hard work and
perseverance.
You have many fine qualities that
are appreciated by friends and family. You're a strong
and solid woman, a sound, unshakeable foundation upon
which a successful family or business can be
built.
YOUR SOUL URGE AND
ROMANCE
You're a woman who's very
dedicated to her family and home. The problem is,
though, that you're somewhat reluctant to be sentimental
or show affection, and as a result you could be regarded
as cold or uncaring when, in fact, you're just the
opposite.
However, the man you choose (or will
choose) as your mate knows that you truly care! Though
your private life may not consist of a series of
candlelit dinners and spontaneous love letters (unless,
of course, the man you're with is a dyed-in-the-wool
romantic), you and he will still be extremely loyal to
each other, good companions for each other, and will
devote your energies to building a solid and lasting
relationship.
You'll want to be sure that the man
you choose as your mate is as practical and
down-to-earth as you are. You won't have any patience
with men who dream of "pie-in-the-sky" without any idea
of how to go about realizing their grandiose plans. You
want tangible results and a clearly marked out path from
point "A" to point "B."
With you, marriage and
family life will be solidly grounded, because that's
what you and your Soul Urge are all about.
There
will, however, be stumbling blocks to get around and
hurdles to clear before you'll be able to achieve what
your soul most desires. These hindrances will result
from flaws in your character that will generate problems
you will be forced to tackle if you are to advance
towards your goals. Don't let this get you down, though
- I mean, we ALL have a few defects in our makeup. If we
didn't, we'd all be perfect and wouldn't that be a drag!
Now take a look at what you might have to deal with in
your quest for happiness......
Your deepest
instincts will lead you to devote your energies to
shaping your career and home life. If you follow that
inclination and build your character and life
incrementally, one step at a time, you'll be rewarded
with success and joy in the outside world and, more
importantly, within yourself as well.
Your
Challenge is an 8. The 8 influence stands for material
gain, success and goal attainment.
I know that
ambition isn't part of your inner drive, but the desire
to attain what YOU want is nonetheless a significant
facet of this Challenge. Learn to live your life in a
more balanced fashion; develop good financial judgment
and work hard.
Once you've mastered this
Challenge, your Soul Urge will lead you to a happier and
more harmonious life!
Your 4 Soul Urge + 9
Destiny add up to quite a strong, realistic and
down-to-earth woman.
You're also broad-minded and
tolerant of just about everything that goes on in life.
The 9 influence tends to make you really easygoing
(especially where others are concerned!). The 4 gives
you that wonderful sense of practicality.
Many
women with this combination enjoy holding positions of
responsibility and make excellent public
servants.
Destiny
Now let's talk about your destiny - or if you
like, your fate, karma, or even God's will! But it's the
same no matter what you call it, because your DESTINY
tells you what you must BE, what you must ACCOMPLISH and
what you must DO in this lifetime to ACHIEVE the lesson
of your Lifepath, make the most of the positive
numerological influences in your character, and prevent
any negative influences from interfering with the
achievement of your purpose, especially when it comes to
romantic relationships.
Your destiny is derived
from the total numerical value of each letter of your
BIRTH NAME - not a married name or nickname, but the
name you were given at the time of your birth, because
it is this number that determines your destiny.
The numerical value of the letters of your name
are calculated by assigning a number to each letter of
the alphabet: A = 1, B = 2, C = 3 and so on. The
numerical value for letters whose numerological
equivalent is two digits is arrived at by adding the two
digits together. For example, M, which is letter 13,
equals 4 (1+3 = 4).
Another numerological
dimension of your name that you need to bear in mind in
order to fully understand your destiny - especially when
it comes to relationships - is that your first name is a
precious personal possession that contains within it
extremely valuable personal lessons. Your middle name or
initial is comprised of latent talents and hidden
abilities (it's no accident that the middle name is, as
the phrase itself suggests, in the "middle"). The
characteristics of your last name tend to be those
shared by all the members of your family.
It's
true that your destiny CAN be changed SOMEWHAT by a name
change, but your birth name will always remain a
powerful influence in your life, as permanent as your
thumbprint. Any changes you make in your name are
superimposed on that powerfully influential original.
Now I'd like you to take a moment to try
something, just for fun. After reading this sentence,
jot down three of your greatest personal strengths. Then
read on, and compare the strengths you wrote on the list
with those revealed by your numerological destiny. Since
your destiny is what you MUST become, I'd really be
surprised if you didn't instinctively "feel" it and come
pretty close to the truth with your list.
One
thing I'd like you to bear in mind, Valerie: the events
of your life, including the romantic ones (even if it
doesn't always seem that way!), happen in a fixed and
numbered order that no one can change. However, your
natural faculty of free will can help you to decide how
to respond to the events in your life - especially when
you're in, or about to embark upon, a romantic
relationship. The insights numerology gives into your
destiny are signs on the path of your destiny, pointing
you in directions that lead you to fulfillment of your
purpose and away from areas that would do the opposite.
This is so important in a romantic relationship,
Valerie, because as I'm sure you know, sometime the most
seemingly "minor" decision turns out to have unforeseen
major consequences, and if you misread or fail to notice
the signs, it's all too easy to miss the optimal path
and, quite unintentionally, head down the wrong
one.
Paying close attention to these signs will
bring you closer to your purpose and will keep you on
the special path that makes you the unique and wonderful
person you are. And if you stay on that path, Valerie,
your romantic relationships will be all the more
fulfilling, because they're also an integral part of you
fulfilling your destiny.
Now that you know all
this, you're ready to begin reading about your destiny.
Bear in mind as you read that the text is a guide, not a
set of instructions: it's basically a summary of the
signs I mentioned a moment ago. All your reactions to
the text are part of those signs, and in my experience
the initial reactions are the ones that you need to
focus on most. So you might want to keep a pencil or pen
and a little notebook handy so that you can jot down any
thoughts or feelings that come to mind as you read about
your destiny. In doing this (especially during the first
read-through), it's important to remember two things:
first and foremost, don't censor yourself! In fact, do
the opposite: write down whatever comes to mind, no
matter how "insignificant" it may seem to you, and
especially if it's got something to do with romance.
Second of all, as you reflect in the coming days upon
what you've read, do be sure to read the signs
attentively before CHOOSING, just as you would be
careful to turn the right way in an unfamiliar city.
Many of us think we know themselves. But do we know our
destinies? Do you? Would you like to find out about it?
Then read on...
Your Destiny - 9
A sensitive, impressionable dreamer with a
concern for the plight of the world, a woman who rolls
up her sleeves, jumps in and gets involved . .
.
You may have heard yourself described in these
terms by friends and colleagues (and probably blushed
while listening!). You enjoy being generous, caring, and
like working for the universe as a whole. And you may be
thinking, so what's the big deal?
The "big deal,"
my friend, is that you're under the influence of the 9
Destiny, which is very powerful and dynamic. Women this
Destiny constantly help humankind. They work hard to
improve conditions, use diplomacy to prevent hostilities
from erupting and always come to the aid of those in
need!
To answer your question-THAT is the big
deal, namely, your desire to assist humankind!
YOUR DESTINY
In
order to fulfill your destiny, it's important to accept
that there are certain things you must be, do, and
accomplish in your life. As a woman with a 9 Destiny,
your mission is to practice humanitarian ideals and to
foster compassion. Ultimately, you're destined to work
for world unity and peace.
Sound like a tall
order? Perhaps on the surface it is, but you have the
traits and resources to pull it off. You have a great
deal of power and energy, which is combined with an
extraordinary amount of sensitivity and generosity with
other people.
Your imagination and creativity
will constantly be coming up with still more
humanitarian endeavors. Because you're so open to those
in need, you'll be able to figure out special ways to
help others to get out of their ruts.
You have
quite a magnetic personality that creates some powerful
changes and provides you with willing assistants for
your projects and endeavors. You have quite an
opportunity to achieve greatness and fame in whatever
you tackle. Just make sure that you follow through with
plans that you start!
You aren't motivated by
money or material wealth. Your ambition is fueled by
idealism and dreams. It's more important for you to
change the quality of people's lives for the better,
than to make a pile of money.
Because you're SO
talented in SO many areas, you'll pretty much be able to
write your own ticket career-wise. Sometimes the choices
are a little TOO varied, though, so that you might have
some problems deciding which direction to
take.
Any direction will be okay for you-as long
as you remember that your Destiny is one that shares its
path with wisdom. Bear in mind that ALL experiences-both
positive and negative-are there to add to your growth.
Many of the experiences that challenge you are actually
tests of various kinds. They'll teach you to make wise
decisions, let go of worldly attachments and accept
disappointments as part of life.
If you can learn
these lessons, the negative experiences won't be
repeated! If, however, you refuse to learn what these
situations have to teach you, you'll probably find
yourself going through them repeatedly.
I
typically find that those who have a 9 Destiny are "old
souls." You've most likely integrated some lessons from
this and other lives fairly well, even while you are
continually challenged by new lessons. This is most
likely why you aren't attracted to material ambitions,
but those of a higher nature, and why your nature is
that of an easy-going, non-directed woman.
You'll
want to watch this tendency to drift and dream, and not
cling to any kind of schedule. An inability to take
responsibility will cause you to be miserable (your
Destiny is to work for the good of the world, so
LAZINESS goes against your grain). By the same token, if
you're involved in situations that don't provide you
with the opportunity to achieve, you could find that
your personal growth stagnates. While it's not within
you to get involved in the petty details of day-to-day
existence, you WILL need to stay in a situation that
allows for expansion. Limitations and restrictions will
cause you to wither.
Those with a 9 Destiny are
also VERY POWERFULLY attracted to religion, philosophy
and the occult. If you're of a more conservative 9
Destiny, you'll probably be a regular churchgoer. Those
who are more liberal thinking like to dabble in the
mysteries of life.
You could find yourself drawn
to movements-and maybe lead them yourself (make sure
that the groups you join don't dabble in the so-called
"black arts" and that they are in existence for the good
of humanity).
You have access to another valuable
tool, namely your "intuitions" or "hunches." When you
can depend on your intuition instead of using logic and
deductive reasoning to attack a problem, you'll find you
accomplish quite a bit.
If you can accept that to
fulfill your Destiny is to work for the benefit of
humanity; and if you realize that your career and power
should be channeled toward this goal, the universe and
all its abundance will open up to you!
MARRIAGE AND
ROMANCE
You'll make a fine romantic
partner and wife because you're extremely TOLERANT, very
PATIENT and expressive and loving with your emotions.
Your generosity with your time and money when it comes
to your husband can also be a wonderful addition to a
loving relationship.
You like to give your time
and money to OTHERS, though, and that could spark some
fireworks in your household if your husband isn't as
tolerant as you are! Because the 9 influence is more of
a "universal" and worldly nature, you may find yourself
spending more time helping others than at home with your
family.
To achieve a harmonious balance in your
home life, try to think of your husband and children as
people who need you, too! If you can maintain a balance
between what you want to achieve for humanity and
serenity at home, you'll find yourself much more
relaxed, happy and energetic. Try to allow others the
freedom you enjoy, but, on the other hand, don't become
distant or erratic for fear of interfering. Let go of
worries and be yourself.
Whether you're attached
or not, the 9 Destiny is one that can bring you much
satisfaction and achievement IF you bear in mind that
your mission is to impart to others the wisdom you've
acquired.
Your Realization is a 9 Destiny + 7
Lifepath = 7 Reality.. (9+7=16 1+6=7)
The Reality
number is a powerful addition to your Destiny number. It
describes you as an adult, explains the SUM of your
total life experiences and PREDICTS your overall
achievement. Because it's a tool more for mid-to-late
life, the Reality number's influences aren't felt very
strongly until you reach your early or middle
fifties.
Numerologically, your Reality number is
calculated by adding your Lifepath number to your
Destiny number (so you see why Destiny plays such an
important part in Reality!).
This type of Reality
combines two numbers with a spiritual emphasis, the 7
and the 9. This means that material goals will not be
important to you and that you aren't cut out for the
usual "ordinary" experiences in life.
Your best
bet for a career with this combination of numbers is one
that deals with philosophy, education, metaphysics and
research. Even if you don't earn a living at any kind of
spiritual effort, you should try to study metaphysics or
philosophy in your free time, as a hobby.
One
reason why studying spirituality is so important is
because you'll most likely have many psychic experiences
in your life. The 7 influence in your Reality almost
demands that you find out the meaning behind these
experiences -- and study will help provide the
answer.
Don't expect to settle down to a
"typical" domestic life. You may prefer to live alone
out in the country -- which would be very good for
you!
Studious, psychic and educated -- this is
your Reality!
Your Emotional
Plane - 5
Your incredible strength of character comes
from deep within you and DEMANDS to be expressed. You
positively THRIVE on activity and change -- almost any
kind of external stimulation will do. In short, if
something's not happening, you're not happy! At the same
time, you derive real enjoyment from meeting people who
are very different from you.
One of your most
important skills is the ability to stand back and take
an IMPARTIAL view of the situation at hand. Your
objectivity also allows you to deal serenely with most
any outcome. If things don't work out the way you had
planned, it's "que sera, sera:" you let go and move on -
and yet you may have deep feelings for someone and think
about them for years.
Just as a news reporter is
always eager for a "scoop," you are continuously in
search of fresh information -- you're TIRED of the same
old story. You have no patience with "This is the way
we've always done things." As a result, your views often
conflict with the views of those around
you.
Day of Birth
When applying numerological data to the complex
relationship between your day of birth and the romantic
you, bear in mind that it's a great profile, but not the
definitive path in your numerological
assessment.
Many other major numbers-such as your
name at birth, your lifepath number, destiny and soul
urge-can influence to what degree your day of birth
number affects your life. These numerical combinations
distinguish you from others who share your day of
birth.
Although you may sometimes use your day of
birth number on a lottery ticket or as the basis for the
PIN number for your ATM card, it has far more
significance than that: your birth day can help you head
down the road to success in romance, health, career and
finance.
Your Day of Birth - 23
Your birthday is on the 23rd, which makes
your birth number 5.
My friend, CHARM is your
middle name! And there's nothing insincere about your
character either. You truly like being around people.
Your friends bring out your best side -- a genuine wit
and honesty that draw people to you like flies to
honey.
Part of your attraction is that you're a
HEALING woman. Even if your career has nothing to do
with medicine or the healing arts, people will seek you
out for emotional and spiritual healing.
Another
reason people are drawn to you is your independence and
self-sufficiency. Your friends and loved ones most
likely want to be around you in hopes that your
character will rub off on them!
To top it off,
you were born under a LUCKY STAR! You'll never lack a
helping hand from those in positions of authority,
whether it be your father, your boss, or even your
senator or congressman.
You're able to obtain
this owing to your sensational ability to communicate,
and your stunning powers of persuasion. All people have
to do is take one look in your eyes, and it's all over -
they just can't say no! You have an awesome ability to
'spin' life events -- whether positive or negative -- to
your own advantage.
Your incredible energy will
lead you to become a true expert in your field of
endeavor. Whether you work at home or in a corporate
environment, you WILL achieve your goals!
Have
you ever wished there were more than 24 hours in a day?
This is typical of women born on the 23rd. Because
you're so interested in EVERYTHING, you want time to do,
see, and experience all that life has to
offer.
Sometimes your abundant energy causes you
to take on too much, however, and you may find yourself
offering to undertake one project too many. When you're
under this kind of stress, your humor turns acid and
your witticisms start sounding more like criticisms.
KNOW how much you can handle before you reach your
stress point and you'll be just fine.
You share
your birthday with a group of dynamic, exciting people.
These folks include Johnny Carson, Lee Majors, Valerie
Bertinelli, Rosemary Clooney, Ray Charles, Bruce
Springsteen and Mickey Rooney.
You're endowed
with a mind that never, EVER rests! Those wheels in your
brain are constantly turning. Interesting ideas, new
ways to make a quick buck, and unusual opportunities are
just some of the products of your prolific "organic
computer". Go with its flow: if you do, you'll be
pleasantly surprised at what comes floating
downstream!
People are impressed by your unique
mind. You're probably often referred to as a
"quick-witted" woman with a mind that is "as sharp as a
tack." Companies want your brain because they know it
will help make them more money. Friends want it because
it means they'll never be bored with your
company!
Yours is a mind that is always one step
ahead of everyone else's. You can answer a person's
question even BEFORE they've finished asking it. You
quickly perceive other people's motivations and pick up
on things in a flash. It doesn't take you long to grasp
a concept, whether it's how to make great homemade beer,
or how to program a computer!
Believe me: women
with such gifted minds are on the road to success.
You've banned the word "can't" from your vocabulary,
which means you can do ANYTHING you put your mind to.
Run with that, and good luck!
Remember that
long-term plans are the most effective road to success.
The same mind (yours!) that bucks routine also rebels
against planning for the future. You'd rather spend your
time inventing new ways to make money quickly, instead
of making sound investments that could see you through
lean times. If you can, channel some of your energies
into planning for the future. You'll be that much
farther ahead.
Freedom and independence are you,
my friend. You're not a nine-to-five company drone --
flexible hours suit you best. As a wife or partner,
you're loyal to your man, but you need space to go out
and follow your own dreams and
aspirations!
Sometimes your desire for a little
breathing room can cause trouble with insecure friends
or family members. Your impatience with the attitudes of
loved ones can cause you to end relationships before
their time has come. Many friendships enter your life,
but often they don't last long.
If you want to
give your relationships more staying power, consider
holding your sharp tongue when you feel angry or bitter
towards someone. Don't forget that others may not be
able to keep with your mind as well as you can! Slow
down a little, and get in the habit of listening to
people when they speak to you.
Fortunately,
listening to others is not a difficult task for you.
You're genuinely interested in finding out the other
person's viewpoint. You get a great kick out of playing
devil's advocate, and this helps stimulate other
people's minds, too!
Even with all your openness
and versatility, you're strangely reluctant when it
comes to showing too much of your personal side. Once
you're at home and out of the limelight, your enthusiasm
may metamorphose into an intense need for
privacy.
This reserved attitude can extend to
personal possessions, too. If you hate it when
co-workers come in and handle objects on your desk, or
get angry if a family member moves something from its
accustomed place on your desk, you're a true five! You
DO NOT like others to touch your things.
Your
quick wit, flexibility and curiosity about life and the
people you meet are bound to take you along some
interesting paths. Be cautious, don't go overboard, but
do ENJOY your life, as I know you will!
ROMANCE AND
FRIENDSHIP
What an attractive
person you are to your friends and lovers! When people
describe you to others, all they can talk about is how
popular and charming you are.
You certainly have
a winning personality and persuasiveness about you that
draws people to you like a magnet. Whether they stick by
you, though, is another story.
Because you thrive
on independence and dislike permanent ties, a serious
romance with one man could be difficult for you.
Friendships are not quite as hard -- after all, you
don't have to build a life with your
friends!
Believe it or not, your best friends are
going to come from other 5s -- folks born on the 5th,
14th and 23rd of any given month. They'll share your
constant desire to see what's around the corner, and
they won't be afraid to try out things that are new and
exciting.
Those born on the 1st, 10th, 19th or
28th of any given month will make great friends or
romantic partners. They'll be attracted to your
unconventional attitude and unique views on life. These
folks are also rooted in practicality and logic, which
will help provide a counterbalance to your flighty
tendencies.
People with the birth number of 3 and
9 are also considered good matches for you 5s. People
born on the 3rd, 12th, 21st or 30th of any given month
have struggled long and hard to get to where they are,
but they share your desire for constant and frequent
change and a fun life. The 9 birth number group --
people whose birthdays fall on the 9th, 18th or 27th of
a given month -- can provide you with a sense of
stability and roots combined with intense energy and
power.
Your husband or partner will be even more
suited to your unconventional and dramatic lifestyle if
he was born between May 21 and June 21 or August 21 and
September 20. When you link up with any of the numbers
above during these periods, SPARKS WILL FLY!
Most
friends and lovers will find you an exciting, unique and
daring individual to be around -- one who will never
lead - or lead them into - a boring life. Enjoy!
COLORS
Have you
noticed that compliments come your way whenever you add
a touch of green to your attire? Green and turquoise are
your best colors. They look good on you, and they make
you feel wonderful! In fact, your best bet for stones is
-- not surprisingly -- the emerald.
Other good
colors for you are light brown, smoky gray and white. If
at all possible, try to work these hues into your home
or work environment. You'll react positively to them and
some amazing things could result.
If you can't
wear them, try to keep a scarf in these colors on or
around your person. You'll be surprised at how much
better you'll feel when you wear even just a smattering
of your special colors.
STRONG AND WEAK
PERIODS
Do you ever have a great
feeling about certain days, that you can literally
conquer the world? Do other days make you wish as though
you'd stayed in bed? Just as your number vibrates with
certain colors and people, it vibrates to days and
dates, too!
Once you understand your strong and
weak periods, you can plan activities more effectively
to bring you financial, emotional and spiritual
success.
STRONG PERIODS: May 21 through June 20
and August 21 through September 20. I mentioned before
that if your husband is born during these periods,
you'll have a very harmonious union. Well, this is a
good period for you in other ways, too. It's a terrific
time for you to take a new job, find new friends or to
upgrade your housing status.
STRONG DATES: The
5th, 14th and 23rd of any given month. These add up
numerically to the number 5 -- your birth number, of
course! Wonderful things can happen to you on these
dates, especially during the strong periods mentioned
above.
STRONG DAYS: Wednesdays and Fridays,
especially if they fall on a 5 number. Combine these
days with your birth number and strong period and the
sky's the limit in terms of what you can
accomplish.
WEAK PERIODS: Yes, you'll have these,
too. Early May, early September and December are not
especially good times for you. This may be the time when
your hectic past catches up with you and you become ill.
Disappointment and loneliness are frequent occurrences
during these periods, and you may find that you have
little ambition, joy or humor.
If you feel this
way, feel free to just kick back, relax and not worry
about missing things in life. Things DO look up after
these periods end, believe me!
HELPFUL
REMINDERS
To help make your number
work even better for you, YOU CAN...
...spend
time with children. Kids and tots share your childlike
love for things and will make amusing companions for
you.
...do some manual labor or exercise. Your
brain is racing, racing, racing! To give it a rest,
participate in a physical activity that doesn't involve
thinking. Slow down! As I keep saying, life won't pass
you by if you aren't in the mainstream every single
minute.
...develop more patience. Yes, I know
it's hard to do that, especially with people who can't
keep up with your active mind or lifestyle. Do try,
however, to listen to other people's opinions and ideas.
You can always learn something new!
By the same
token, YOU SHOULD NOT...
...be bitter or
sharp-tongued with others when angry. If you aren't in
the best of moods, take a moment to think before
speaking. It's more difficult to take back something
that's been said than not to say it at
all.
...trust strangers. This applies to
friendship, romance or people you've just
met.
...make false promises. It's a great way to
pacify your friends, but in the long run it's a strategy
that could backfire.
As you can see, your birth
number is a powerful tool that can help you in all
aspects of your life and can bring you plenty of good
things. Enjoy!
Valerie, I've given you various insights into how the
power of the numbers concealed in your name can unlock
many doors in life (and to romance!) that might
otherwise remain shut, or that you might have to force
open. With this knowledge, romantic relationships (not
to mention all the other parts of your life) just go
smoother, because when all is said and done, nothing is
more yours and therefore more important than your name -
and the more knowledge you have about its inner
workings, the greater the success you'll enjoy in your
relationships with men and in all your other endeavors
as well.
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Understand what influences the course
of romance in Eddie's life.
- What he wants from his relationships.
- What makes him the happiest in these
relationships.
- How he can recognize when she comes into his
life.
- How he can avoid ill-advised combinations of
aspects and influences that could have been
avoided.
Dear Valerie,
This profile will
show you how these four aspects of numerology influence
the course of romance in Eddie's life.
- Eddie's soul urge: What lies within his heart. It
describes what truly makes him happy in a
relationship.
- Eddie's destiny: How he can make the most of the
positive numerological influences in his character,
and prevent any negative influences from interfering
with the achievement of his purpose, especially when
it comes to romantic relationships
- Eddie's Emotional Plane: Knowing his
feelings.
- Eddie's day of birth: The person who he is
attracted to. The person who would be best for
him.
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EDWARD LODEWIJK
VANHALEN |
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Born: January, 26
1955
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| Soul
Urge |
33/6 |
| Destiny |
95/5 |
| Emotional
Plane |
4 |
| Day of
Birth |
26 |
Soul Urge
The world is full of people who lack the
wherewithal to be themselves, and who present an image
to the outside world that is totally different from what
they really feel inside. Well, Eddie, the numbers of
Eddie's SOUL URGE and outer personality explain why this
is so. His SOUL URGE is the key to who he really is and
to what's really going on inside him. As its name
suggests, it's what motivates him, what drives him
forward. It's also one of Eddie's key aspects when it
comes to romance and marriage.
This important
numerological tool forms the basis of all Eddie's
beliefs and instincts - the good, the bad, and all the
ones in between - and that inner knowledge of the world
and life, all those things he can't articulate but that
he knows are so. Most times we only become aware after
the fact of the impact the Soul Urge has had on critical
events in our lives, those turning points that we look
back on. So, for example, if Eddie is in a committed
relationship, he might sometimes wonder about the future
of the relationship, or if it's the right relationship
for him. Or if he's single, he might think: "When will I
find that special woman?"..."When's a good time to look
for her or should I 'wait and see' and not look actively
at all?..." "How will I recognize her when I meet her?"
Numerology can't answer all those questions
definitively of course, but it can shed some light on
them, and in so doing contribute to the harmony and
duration of relationships - whether they began yesterday
or half a century ago!
The Soul Urge is also
known as the Heart's Desire because it describes what
lies within Eddie's heart - his attitudes, ambitions,
goals and desires. It describes what his true "heart's
desire" is - and what truly makes him happy within a
relationship, and in other areas of his life as
well.
Eddie's Soul Urge is calculated by adding
the numbers that represent the vowels in his name. The
name "Jill Saint James," for example, has a 7 Soul Urge
(9 + 1 + 9 + 1 + 5 = 25 = 7). My Soul Urge emphasizes
spirituality, analysis, quiet time and
questioning!
Another very important factor to
bear in mind is the Soul Urge Challenge. It represents
obstacles that Eddie needs to overcome so that he can
get the best and the most out of his Soul Urge's
direction. It is calculated by subtracting the first and
last vowels of his name.
His
Soul Urge - 6
What a marvel he is!
Generous and
caring, responsible, loving and affectionate and one
heck of an all-around nice guy - that's HIM deep down,
with a lot more added for good measure!
His
natural sweetness results from his 6 Soul Urge. He's
loyal to those he loves, and is a firm believer in
family values. No wonder he's probably well-respected in
his family and community!
His main goal in life
is to feel useful. He's always there to lend a helping
hand with a project or to take responsibility in any
situation where assistance is needed. In fact, his
desire to be useful could bring responsibility right to
his front door, whether he wants it there or not (but
deep down, he wants it, right?)
He also craves
approval and affection. He doesn't mind giving of
himself, his love or his time - in fact, he LOVES doing
favors - but he wants SOME recognition for his good
deeds.
He's interested in leaving the world a
better place than he found it. News about poverty,
accidents and the decline of the family have a strong
effect on him, and he'll work to right wrongs or help
those in need whenever he can. Men with a 6 Soul Urge
can be found helping out in soup lines, organizing
fund-raising drives and giving talks about family
values.
He could often be regarded as the "cosmic
father" because he's eager to serve humanity in a
responsible manner. He also loves to teach and share his
wisdom with others.
Sometimes, however, his
desire for responsibility can cause him to take on too
much - or to involve himself in situations that he
simply can't change. It could be that one of the lessons
he needs to learn in life is "let it be".
His
sympathy and compassion send the message to others that
his shoulder is ALWAYS available for a good cry. People
often come to him when they need a compassionate
listener, or some straightforward, no-nonsense
advice.
Despite (or perhaps because of) his
'principled' sweetness, he also has the capacity to be
honest - sometimes painfully so. This trait is most in
evidence when he's fighting for a cause he believes in
strongly. While his honesty and persuasiveness are
regarded by many (especially other men) as an admirable
trait, some people (especially women) could regard him
as argumentative and disagreeable because he fights hard
for his beliefs and principles.
He should be sure
his tendency to shoot from the hip doesn't either
overshadow his more positive qualities or alienate
people. He should also bear in mind that being too
critical or sharp-tongued could cost him affection,
approval, and support, all of which he
needs.
Even though he has a well developed sense
of responsibility and will go out of his way to be of
assistance to others, he has no desire to take center
stage or bask in the limelight. He isn't terribly
ambitious, and he's perfectly contented working with
others to achieve common goals.
He does need pats
on the back from time to time, however, and he'll
probably get them, too. I would expect that at some
point he'll be named "Volunteer of the Year" in his
community or be written up in his local newspaper for
undertaking a project that was of benefit to his
neighbors.
He should watch out, though: his
desire to take on responsibility might result in his
spending a lot of time fretting over minute details.
Sometimes he identifies so strongly with the
beneficiaries of his efforts that he ends up sharing
their fears and anxieties, and hearing their negative
thoughts in his head.
He's simply got to hang on
to his faith and ideals and never let anyone or anything
prevent him from doing what he thinks is right. But he
must set aside some quality time for himself, too. If he
find himself giving more than he should, he need only
back off a little bit. Channeling too much kindness in
one direction isn't good for either the giver or the
receiver. And it just drains his energy, which is, after
all in limited supply and which he could be using to aid
someone who truly needs him.
However, both his
generosity and his desire to give are part of his charm
and the main reason that people love him. But he
shouldn't give away huge chunks of himself. If he
surrounds himself with friends who share his beliefs, he
WILL be able to make the world a better place to
live!
HIS SOUL URGE AND
ROMANCE
He has an interesting
personality insofar as matters of the heart are
concerned. He's a strong believer in family, and in
loyalty in marriage. His sweet nature and generous
disposition will be like a dream come true for the woman
he chooses to spend his life with, and his loyalty will
ensure that the relationship lasts. At the same time he
expects his wife or partner to be almost perfect - or he
might be looking for a woman who shares his ideals.
These requirements could prove to be an obstacle to his
finding a loving and fulfilling
relationship.
With his family, he's loyal and
generous, almost to a fault. Sometimes, however, he
tries to give his family TOO MUCH of himself (too much
of anything - even love - can be harmful!), which could
create resentment and pain. If he senses this happening,
he should back off a little.
He can expect that
his strong presence and sympathetic nature will be the
dominant force in his family's day to day existence, and
that they'll love and accept him exactly as he is. But
he mustn't forget to return the favor: like all human
beings, his loved ones need strokes too!
There
will, however, be stumbling blocks to get around and
hurdles to clear before he'll be able to achieve what
his soul most desires. These hindrances will result from
flaws in his character that will generate problems he
will be forced to tackle if he is to advance towards his
goals. He shouldn't let this get him down, though - I
mean, we ALL have a few defects in our makeup. If we
didn't, we'd all be perfect and wouldn't that be a drag!
Now take a look at what he might have to deal with in
his quest for happiness......
When he comes to a
deeper understanding of life and realizes that not
everyone shares his opinions on every subject and that
each person needs to find their own path, he'll find his
own a little easier. The more he's able to help others
in a loving, non-judgmental and non-intrusive way, the
happier he'll be!
The combination of his 6 Soul
Urge and 5 Destiny can give rise to some interesting
conflicts in his life.
While the 5 aspect makes
him a competitive guy and very good in careers like
sales, the 6 side constantly seeks a rational basis for
his actions. This side also ensures, though, that
whatever he does in life, he'll do it with a view to
serving others.
Owing to this constant conflict
between the two aspects, people might think of him
(incorrectly) as being somewhat aloof or
cold.
Destiny
Now let's talk about Eddie's destiny, which
reveals what he must BE, ACCOMPLISH and DO in this
lifetime to ACHIEVE the lesson of his Lifepath, make the
most of the positive numerological influences in his
character, and prevent any negative influences from
interfering with the achievement of his purpose,
especially when it comes to romantic relationships.
Eddie's destiny is derived from the total
numerical value of each letter of his BIRTH NAME - not a
married name or nickname, but the name he was given at
the time of his birth, because it is this number that
determines his destiny.
The numerical value of
the letters of his name are calculated by assigning a
number to each letter of the alphabet: A = 1, B = 2, C =
3 and so on. The numerical value for letters whose
numerological equivalent is two digits is arrived at by
adding the two digits together. For example, M, which is
letter 13, equals 4 (1+3 = 4).
You will achieve a
greater understanding of Eddie's destiny if you bear in
mind that a person's middle name or initial is, Numerologically
speaking, comprised of latent talents
and hidden abilities that are, like position of the
"middle" name itself, obscured by the other aspects; and
that the characteristics of a person's last name tend to
be those shared by all the members of a their
family.
It's true that a person's destiny CAN be
changed SOMEWHAT by a name change, but their birth name
will always remain a powerful influence in their lives,
as permanent as a thumbprint. Any changes Eddie might
make in his name would be superimposed on that
powerfully influential original.
Now that you
know all this, you're ready to begin reading about
Eddie's destiny...
His Destiny -
5
Enthusiastic, extroverted, enticing . .
.
I'll bet these words describe him perfectly! To
him, life is one long non-conformist adventure. He puts
all his desires and goals into one
thought-FREEDOM!
The reason that he's attracted
to an unconventional lifestyle is that he's under the
influence of a 5 Destiny. Men with this Destiny tend to
ignore the status quo and go merrily on their own
adventures down the road of life. His life isn't
restricted to an armchair at home, my friend. He wants
to do and explore EVERYTHING.
HIS DESTINY
In
order for him to fulfill his destiny, he needs to accept
that there are certain things he must be, do, and
accomplish in his life. As a guy with a 5 Destiny, he is
here to break up tradition and expand his personal
horizons. To accomplish these objectives, he should be
able to rely on his adventurous and spirited
personality.
With these Destiny goals, he's
fortunate to have all of the tools he needs to attain
them. His natural versatility and boundless energy lead
him into many experiences. If there are no experiences
to be enjoyed, well, he creates some! A lot of times,
his restlessness will stir things up and REALLY create
some drastic change! This is OK, for the most part, as
long as he doesn't create conflict and burn all his
bridges to try and calm his restlessness. With his
Destiny, the purpose of creating change is to help him
GROW.
There may be times, though, when he FEARS
change and clings with all his strength to the "old way
of doing things." Well, he shouldn't! Yes, change can be
frightening-even for him -- but it is in his Destiny
that he's the initiator of progress.
A lot of
people might consider him a "Jack of All Trades" because
he likes to do a number of things at once. It wouldn't
surprise me to walk into his office or home one day and
find two telephones glued to each ear, a book in front
of him and a visitor in the same room. He has a
remarkable ability to do EVERYTHING at once-and to do
everything well.
While he's terrific at starting
things, I'm afraid he doesn't FINISH as much as he
STARTS. This is because the 5's influence tends more
toward explorations and beginnings rather than taking
things through to completion. But this isn't all bad - -
SOMEONE has to be first at something!
Sometimes,
however, he beats himself over the head because he KNOWS
he's unable to complete what he starts. He worries
constantly that people will think he's "flighty" because
he flits from one thing to another and only goes with
the excitement of the moment.
Well, he should
stop blaming himself for something that just isn't a
part of him. It's true that one of the lessons he needs
to learn is to stop PROCRASTINATING. But believe me,
others are perfectly capable of continuing something
once he gets the ball rolling.
I want to remind
you that his Destiny is centered around personal
expansion and breaking up old and outdated traditions.
It's a little hard to do that if he's having to see to
the nit-picky details of projects and endeavors he
begins. Face it, my friend, ROUTINE is not a word he
likes. The sooner he accepts that, the easier his life
will be. FREEDOM is the word he relates to!
Even
if he can't finish everything he starts, he has the
personal magnetism and ability to attract help to his
side. People really like him because he exudes that air
of excitement and energy that's just too hard to
resist.
It's important that he learn, however,
how important it is not to turn people off with his
outspokenness or occasional outbursts of aggressiveness.
Though he may claim he's "just" energetic" (I can almost
hear him saying this!), believe me: sometimes his
"energy" can be misunderstood.
Another trait that
will help him achieve his Destiny is his ability to pick
up facts about practically everything there is to know.
He likes to stay on top of things and to be kept
informed of progress in any field. This talent is very
helpful when it comes to his own expansion-and also when
it comes to reforming the status quo. The more he knows
about a topic and insists on change or reform, the less
likely his opponents are to question him.
But
even his opponents are likely to be worn down to
agreement with him, thanks to his charm, for one thing,
and enthusiasm about a given topic or situation, for
another. If he finds something that REALLY interests
him, there's no stopping his involvement. That kind of
sincerity will be a big help as he learns more about
life.
His natural versatility, talents and energy
WILL help him succeed along his Lifepath as long as he
accepts that he's not the kind of guy who'll settle down
to a "traditional" situation. He's here to stimulate
change-and to broaden his own and the rest of humanity's
horizons with the results!
MARRIAGE AND
ROMANCE
One of the traits that his
Destiny might bring out is a strong sexual nature. Part
of his magnetism comes from his SEXUALITY, meaning he's
likely to find a lot of women flocking to him because
he's such an attractive guy.
This is good for
him, however. With the proper precautions and context, a
lot of life's lessons can be learned through an exchange
of sexual energies. If he takes a good look at the mind
behind the physique, he'll be well on his way to
fulfilling his Destiny (personal expansion).
His
views are rather unique when it comes to marriage.
Physical expression is a MUST in any long-term romantic
partnership he has. He'll probably have some rather
unusual ideas when it comes to child-rearing or open
marriages, which could turn off some of the more
traditional-minded Destiny numbers. He should be careful
not to get tied down to a jealous woman, because he'll
just rebel and take it out on her by having extramarital
affairs.
For the most part, he'll make a
fascinating and exciting life partner. The trick for him
is to learn patience and consideration from his wife or
partner so that he can waste less energy being
FRUSTRATED and channel more of his efforts into bringing
about PROGRESS.
Once he learns that he's to be in
the forward-moving mode of life, he should use his
energy to help yourself-and others around him-progress
and grow! I wish his luck.
His Realization is a 5
Destiny + 11 Lifepath = 7 Reality.. (5+11=16
1+6=7)
The Reality number is a powerful addition
to his Destiny number. It describes him as an adult,
explains the SUM of his total life experiences and
PREDICTS his overall achievement. Because it's a tool
more for mid-to-late life, the Reality number's
influences aren't felt very strongly until he reaches
his early or middle fifties.
Numerologically, his
Reality number is calculated by adding his Lifepath
number to his Destiny number (so you can see why Destiny
plays such an important part in Reality!).
The
combination of a 5 and 11 is a very intense one, so he
can expect a lot of emotion to be flowing around him at
certain times! The Master Number 11 can lead him into
the realms of true psychic phenomenon and
spirituality.
These are excellent numbers for a
career that requires a lot of energy and emotion. The
truly great actors and musicians can be found with this
Reality.
He's probably regarded as a truly
original and somewhat offbeat character. People either
like him or don't -- there's no in-between when it comes
to others people's feelings about him!
Because of
the volatile forces these numbers create, it's important
for him to get a lot of rest, exercise and to eat right.
He should make sure that his physical self is in tip-top
shape, because his emotional and spiritual sides will
certainly undergo some changes.
As he grows
older, he'll want to withdraw into solitude, which is
the benchmark of the 7 influence. This will be a good
time to share his spiritual findings with others either
through a magazine, a published book or in a series of
essays.
Emotion, intensity and an intense
interest in psychic happenings -- this is his
Reality!
His Emotional Plane - 4
I wouldn't be surprised if his best friend or
confidant is someone younger than he is -- either in
chronological age or in achievements. That's because he
is JUST insecure enough that he prefers to be with
people he can dominate.
He really does shine with
positive reinforcement. But then look how deflated he
becomes at even the slightest criticism.
He has a
burning need to understand EVERYTHING that happens to
him and as a result spends a lot of time analyzing his
inner feelings. He also tends to take a great deal of
responsibility for his actions, which may be why he is
usually willing to put so much effort into making
relationships work.
He needs to give his emotions
practical outlets. Working as a counselor or nurse or
volunteering to help the needy, for instance, makes
great use of his empathy. But he should bear in mind
that loyalty is one of his strongest virtues - but at
the same time he shouldn't lose his sense of self. It's
a mistake for him to compare himself unfavorably to
others, thinking he hasn't achieved enough.
Day of Birth
When applying numerological data to the complex
relationship between a person's day of birth and the
romantic them, you have to bear in mind that this data
makes a great profile, but not a finished numerological
"portrait."
Many other major numbers-such as a
person's name at birth, your lifepath number, destiny
and soul urge-can influence the degree to which their
day of birth number affects their romantic
relationships.
Although people may sometimes use
their day of birth number on a lottery ticket or as the
basis for the PIN number on their ATM card, it has far
more significance than that: a person's birth day can
help them head down the road to success, particularly in
romance, but in such other areas as health, career and
finance too.
For most of us, the birth day is
when another year of life is celebrated. The "ritual"
surrounding these celebrations can include a cake and
gifts and the song "Happy Birthday."
In
numerology, a person's day of birth is more than a
number that appears on their birth certificate, however:
their birth day number has an abiding influence on every
aspect of their life. Although they grow older and may
change their name, their birth number always remains
constant. The birth number is the first number a person
is aware of as a child. People may sometimes forget
exactly how old they are or the date of their wedding
anniversary, but no one ever forgets the number of their
day of birth.
His Day of Birth -
26
He was born on the 26th day of the month,
which makes his birth number 8.
Although he's
interested in power, authority and money, a career
outside the home is not his ultimate goal in life. He's
extremely grounded in his home life and likely to put
family ahead of career.
He tends to be a very
sentimental guy. Weddings, happy occasions, movies -- he
feels it all at the deepest level!
Sometimes he
even cries, but his tears aren't weak tears. He's a
tough-minded individual with a lively and intelligent
character. He's got the talent, ability and, most
important -- the DESIRE -- to realize large-scale plans.
Best of all, those plans WILL succeed!
One
characteristic of eights is that they don't like asking
others for help. Because he was born on the 26th,
however, he's a little more willing than other eights to
ask for assistance. He knows that there's nothing wrong
with the occasional helping hand from a friend or
co-worker.
Unfortunately, he may tend to spend
too much time dwelling on the past. Perhaps he broods on
past mistakes and wishes that he could do things all
over again, and this time do them "right." Sometimes
this unhealthy obsession with past events could harm the
prospects for success of his current activities and
plans.
He should learn to let go of those regrets
and instead focus his amazing reserves of energy and
enormous stamina on today's projects. Once he's learned
his lessons from past mistakes, financial, career and
even LIFE success will be his for the
taking.
Most of these famous folks have made
their share of mistakes too. But they've risen above
their pasts to reach goals in a variety of industries.
They include Geraldine Ferraro, Mick Jagger, Jaclyn
Smith, Eric Sevareid and Paul Newman.
In addition
to being very intelligent and honest, he's endowed with
the three P's: Power, Patience and
Persistence.
People feel that he radiates an aura
of power and authority in almost any project he
undertakes. He's excellent when it comes to delegating
tasks, and many of his ideas are accepted with little
discussion or argument! Such is the persuasiveness of a
man with his birth number.
He also frequently
finds himself assuming the role of protector. People
often come to him for advice and to lean on his honesty,
strength and authority. To his credit, he would never
use his influential personality to infringe upon the
rights of, or destroy, others.
What's more,
EVERYONE admires his willpower. Once he makes up his
mind to do something, he doesn't talk it to death, he
just digs in and completes the project with a minimum of
fuss. If he decides to diet, he doesn't talk about the
meals he's skipping. If he wants to write the great
American novel he doesn't bore everyone with the
plot.
Patience, the second of his three strongest
aspects, manifests itself through his serene acceptance
of life and people. Events and situations that make most
people want to beat their head against the wall in
frustration are like water off a duck's back to him. He
regards delays, obstacles and failures as phenomena to
be overcome, just part of the order of things. "That's
life" is the motto he embraces.
Persistence, the
third "P," goes hand-in-hand with patience. He's
goal-driven and will do whatever it takes to reach the
finish line. The goal may be an ambitious one such as
becoming president of a company. Or perhaps it's a minor
goal such as reaching the grocery store three miles down
the road, though no vehicle is available to get he
there.
Sometimes he may take that third "P" to
extremes, however. Canceling an evening at the theatre
because of a last-minute project, sacrificing a family
birthday party to "finish that last letter" at work, or
being so engrossed in his activities that he forgets to
think of those who are near and dear to him.
The
"Three Ps" characterize him as someone who is calm,
balanced and serene. Yet underneath that peaceful
surface, he may actually lead a double life.
As
far as people are concerned, he can be somewhat
self-contradictory. On one hand, he seem to like them
quite a lot, and he's very VERY loyal to family and
friends. But on the other hand, he's a loner. The saying
"march to the beat of a different drummer" could have
been invented specially for him.
He may notice
this paradoxical quality about himself in connection
with his personal finances: he may give people the
impression he's quite well off, whereas in reality he
goes through one cash-flow crisis after
another.
As a child, he was probably already very
adult-like. He gained his wisdom about life at a very
early age, which always made him seem older than he
really was.
He's in good company with that
birthdate, my friend. Throughout history, his fellow 8s
have been associated with revolutions, important
investigations and major historical upheavals. This has
resulted from their tendency to be goal-driven and to
sacrifice everything for a cause they believe
in.
As a man lucky enough to be endowed with the
"Three Ps," he'll make his mark in life, whether he's
running a major corporation or little league team. I
hope he'll take the time to enjoy the fruits of his
labor, because he certainly deserves to!
ROMANCE AND
FRIENDSHIP
Although he's a powerful
individual, he's one of those loveable guys who will
more than likely put marriage ahead of his career. His
desire is for a fine home and strong
marriage.
This certainly makes him attractive to
women, who are initially drawn to his power but probably
stick around to get to know him a little
better.
Once committed to that special and
wonderful woman, he's committed for life, no matter what
happens. Even if things fall apart at home, he'd do
anything to avoid divorce. If he allows himself the time
to find the right woman, he'll be in good
shape!
His best bet in romance will be with women
who have day of birth numbers 1, 3, 5 and 6. Women who
are 1s -- those born on the 1st, 10th, 19th or 28th of a
given month -- are as dynamic and as successful as he
is. With a 1 by his side, he and his woman will project
the image of the perfect "career couple." Neither of
them would be jealous of hours donated to outside
activities, since they'd both be working long
hours!
Women born on the 3rd, 12th, 21st or 30th
of a given month are also dynamic, independent and
inquisitive. They share a lot of his powerful traits
including astute powers of observation, the desire to
get ahead in the working world and a belief in truth and
honesty.
Women born on the 5th, 14th or 23rd of a
given month adapt well to sudden, out-of-town trips or
parties for clients and colleagues, while those born on
the 6th, 15th or 24th make good wives or partners
because they enjoy domestic life and will do more than
their share of the while he's out making him
millions!
By the same token, he should AVOID
romance with women whose day of birth is the 4th, 13th,
22nd or 31st. Although they're domestically-oriented, he
might be looking for a more dynamic
partner.
Women born on the 9th, 18th or 27th are
generous and fun-loving, but their indecisiveness could
drive him up the wall! This trait appears to be less
disturbing to men than to women, however. Women born on
the 8th, 17th, or 26th will make decent friends but
lousy lovers. The power he possesses that is so
attractive to others in work situations can be used as
an emotional weapon when conflicts flare up in the
domestic sphere: 'love gone wrong' between two 8s is no
summer picnic!
Women born on the 2nd, 11th, or
20th could also make good friends for a man like
him.
COLORS
Yes, his day
of birth resonates positively with colors. He may have
noticed that he feels better when he's around shades of
black, navy blue, gray or purple. Or people may have
complimented him on how well he looks when he wear these
colors. These colors vibrate specifically with the
number 8, and that's why he feels so good when he's
around them.
If his wardrobe doesn't contain
these colors, he should consider adding an accessory or
two that does. A black tie or pocket handkerchief can
enhance his power quite a lot. And everyone knows that
any self-respecting man in the business world should own
at least one navy blue, gray or black suit!
He
should also try to incorporate some of these colors into
his environment, too. If his wife or partner doesn't
object, black drapes, walls, sheets and cushions will,
believe it or not, help him to relax at
home.
When it comes to jewelry, such darker
stones as blue sapphires, amethysts, and lapis are best
for him.
STRONG AND WEAK
PERIODS
He may have a great feeling
about certain days, that he can literally conquer the
world, while other days may make him wish he'd stayed in
bed. Just as his number vibrates with certain colors and
people, it vibrates with days and dates,
too!
Once he understands his strong and weak
periods, he can plan activities more effectively for
financial, emotional and spiritual
success.
STRONG PERIODS: He'll always have strong
periods, but some periods during the year will be
stronger than others. These include the period from
September 20 to October 25 and January 20 to February
20. This is a good time for him to finish old projects,
start new ones and make plans for his future. It's also
a terrific time to look for a new place to live. These
are auspicious periods for travel.
STRONG DATES:
The 8th, 17th and 26th of any month. Yes, all of these
numbers add up to his birth number of 8. When he
combines his power with the power of these numbers,
he'll end up being truly strong on these days. When
these days fall between December 21st and 31st, January
20th and 27th and February 19th and 26th, they are even
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